If you’re a girl who is specifically looking for gay friends chances are I don’t want to be friends with you because I’m not an accessory who wants to go shopping or bungee jumping or whatever girls do with you
People still come up to me and Steven and ask whether we can take them shopping. Steven just points out that he’s not much use as he’s not very fashion-conscious. I can’t get away with that though so I have to work out whether they’re asking me just because I’m gay or because I actually wear nice clothes. In the case of the former, I get angry, in the case of the latter, I point out that my clothes cost roughly five times more than they’re willing to spend and they back away slowly.